Wednesday, April 25, 2012

The Return to Abraham

This is Vandaloor.
Vandaloor is a leprosy colony.
This is my friend Abraham.
He has leprosy.
I met him last June.
He remembered me
As you can see leprosy has taken it's toll
on my friend in 9 short months.
                                             
                                             June 2011                                                 March 2012
                           
It's as if a decade has passed.
Leprosy attacks the nerves in the feet and hands.
Slowly the face begins to droop 
around the nose and
vision is impaired. 
Abraham has missing toes and fingers.
I can see the biggest change in his eyes.

Last year I could see he was strong.
He took me into his home and prayed for me.
This time he kept more to himself.

I think he's going blind.
I'm sad to see him like this. 
He loves his daughter and grandkids a lot. 
It's odd to feel I know this man like I do.  
We've never exchanged words.
But my heart tells me I know him.
Someday we will find each other and he will
shake my hand, with his perfected hands,
and we will fill in the gaps to our story.

I am glad to have known Abraham.


A Soft Heart


Recently my family  spent 2 weeks in India 
volunteering with an Organization called Rising Star Outreach, 
who's mission is to "Lift Leprosy" 
among the leprosy afflicted there.
I questioned how a trip like this would turn out given the young ages of my children;
 6, 8, and 10.
I am pleased to say it was WONDERFUL!

 I admired my 8 year old daughter
 as she held up limbs infected with leprosy while another cut away rotted bandages.
I smiled as my 10 year old son
 helped his dad wash and rub the exposed disease. 
My heart was touched 
when I witnessed my 6 year old son
 overwhelmed with compassion for
 people missing fingers, legs, or hands.

“I want to hug them all day.” He whispered in my ear. 
“I can’t stop hugging them.”
(This lady was as a little as he is!) 

My hope was to have my children see the beauty in serving others, 
especially when “OTHERS” are...not always beautiful.

At first, my 6 year old didn’t want them to touch him.  Perhaps he was afraid he would magically turn into one of them. (Missing fingers or have deformities)  
After some gentle assurance he knew would be safe if they touched him. 

I encouraged all my kids to love those with leprosy by 
offering a smile 
while making eye contact.  (A simple gesture of respect that leprosy afflicted people don't normally get. )  
This could be a challenge in itself because some of them can be scary looking to a child.

Without communicating in the same language 
my young family was able to express 
friendship, love and kindness to a people often rejected and mistreated by giving them a
 "HEART."  
It was my 6 year old's job to deliver a heart 
each time someone new sat down to have their wounds cleaned and re-bandaged.   
We got the same reaction every time. 
 First it was confusion.  
They stare at the heart unsure of what to do with it.  
Then, I would motion them to place the heart over their heart.  
As they did this I tenderly gave a gentle tap over their hands and the heart indicating it was now theirs to keep.
Often times their eyes would meet mine and I could tell they were moved by this.  They understood the language of LOVE.



A tender touch:
A little Kindness

softens HEARTS!

When YOU become a Rising Star Volunteer you are changing history.  
You are teaching the World that being HUMAN is what life is about.  
You aren’t just changing bandages- you’re changing a 1,000 year old stigma. 

Tuesday, April 24, 2012

Video: Arriving In India


After a day of jet lag in a Hotel, we were excited to visit Rising Star Campus! This is a SUPER way to gain 200 friends fast! They are NOT shy. According to them YOU are there to play with THEM! They call all women "Auntie" and men "Uncle" They especially LOVE men. Sam was swarmed all the time. The boys just wanted to listen to him tell stories while they climbed on him. They love attention from Dads.
Most the kids at this school come from leprosy afflicted homes. They live here at the Rising Star campus like a Boarding School. This is where Sponsors are SO helpful! For $30 a month you are paying for a child to live here and be educated, fed, and cared for. They are so lucky to live here. Rising Star takes GREAT care of them! (If anyone is interested in sponsoring a child I can pick out one of my favorites for you!)